New love is often an addiction in which may confuse or clear up matters of the mind. For one who does not want a 'right for now relationship' but rather faithfully, ever-after; the question of "are we meant to be?" becomes prevalent in one's mind. Since they say not to mask one addiction with another unhealthy addiction it is not sad to measure what love is by healthy or unhealthy.
Having come from a family where the parents marriage stayed intact yet was troublesomely unhealthy; Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs becomes a matter of justification personally, due to my own beliefs up-top the pyramid. Basically, if one is not satisfied with the affection in bed and are also unsatisfied with matters of the relationship in terms of endearment, encouragement and self-fulfillment can one really consider themselves a pertinacious brat?
I believe the answer is no. If I watched a partnership such as my parents where my mother begged and complained of a back massage or back tickling, am I at fault for not wanting a relationship where my own desire for one is not being met? Considering I go to extremes to set an example by doing what I want done to me to set the bar for; "treating others how you are treated," it has not become a matter of what I deserve, but rather what I need before that fifth step on Maslow's theory is joyfully filled.
Everyone has needs and life should be a bundle of beautiful, handsome joy 24/7 so the question comes to; how do you judge if you are right for each other.
Again, being I'm not one for a "just now relationship" and my goal is not to waste one's time; the question of 'how do we know we were made for each other?' comes into play > All Day. It's easy to judge this question as we are creatures of breeding and therefore staying together for children can answer this question simply. However, doing for children is at most an extreme in society but can a society where the adults are scrambled be healthy for a united national civilization. I think not. - -mostly due to the given divorce rate of unhappy marriages
For those who have addictions to enjoyments in life who've concluded your own evaluation on being 'meant to be' by trusting that "what's meant to be will be" and 'if it feels right than it probably is.' If you've come to the conclusion you feel both of you are acting love than perhaps you are, or if you've also come to the conclusion that your marriage has lost love and though you are still together (like my parents) than perhaps you are meant to be and thus you've stayed to weather the storm together- thus proving love too. Or perhaps not.
In any event. Love is addicting but something you adore in one person can be found in another. If one likes spicy food and one doesn't can you build a marriage off of thus foundations? Who the hell knows.
Disclaimer; A handsome and beautiful must be a lot to desire.
Having come from a family where the parents marriage stayed intact yet was troublesomely unhealthy; Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs becomes a matter of justification personally, due to my own beliefs up-top the pyramid. Basically, if one is not satisfied with the affection in bed and are also unsatisfied with matters of the relationship in terms of endearment, encouragement and self-fulfillment can one really consider themselves a pertinacious brat?
I believe the answer is no. If I watched a partnership such as my parents where my mother begged and complained of a back massage or back tickling, am I at fault for not wanting a relationship where my own desire for one is not being met? Considering I go to extremes to set an example by doing what I want done to me to set the bar for; "treating others how you are treated," it has not become a matter of what I deserve, but rather what I need before that fifth step on Maslow's theory is joyfully filled.
Everyone has needs and life should be a bundle of beautiful, handsome joy 24/7 so the question comes to; how do you judge if you are right for each other.
Again, being I'm not one for a "just now relationship" and my goal is not to waste one's time; the question of 'how do we know we were made for each other?' comes into play > All Day. It's easy to judge this question as we are creatures of breeding and therefore staying together for children can answer this question simply. However, doing for children is at most an extreme in society but can a society where the adults are scrambled be healthy for a united national civilization. I think not. - -mostly due to the given divorce rate of unhappy marriages
For those who have addictions to enjoyments in life who've concluded your own evaluation on being 'meant to be' by trusting that "what's meant to be will be" and 'if it feels right than it probably is.' If you've come to the conclusion you feel both of you are acting love than perhaps you are, or if you've also come to the conclusion that your marriage has lost love and though you are still together (like my parents) than perhaps you are meant to be and thus you've stayed to weather the storm together- thus proving love too. Or perhaps not.
In any event. Love is addicting but something you adore in one person can be found in another. If one likes spicy food and one doesn't can you build a marriage off of thus foundations? Who the hell knows.
Disclaimer; A handsome and beautiful must be a lot to desire.