Mothers, daughters, granddaughters, sisters, aunts, female cousins in general can all get along and help one another out in regards to being gentle to feelings to attain.. “Getting what we want.” In other words; men are not meant to make household decisions. The term, “mommy knows best.” may not always provide to be valid and useful because the truth is, “I know what I want and you either help me to get it or stay out of the way.” Therefore it seems for a woman to get what they want they have to work around what others want to get just what they want. It's not a tragic role to play because making men happy is a joy to woman. Pleasing family, friends and children is naturally a main intent of woman. Pleasing yourself, by pleasing others is simple until man comes into the picture. When someone doesn't see the vision of your overall outcome of your decisions and all they see is them being screwed, and then a woman can't carry out her vision because the man is standing in the way; the happy vision is screwed and everyone has to settle for something a little less enjoying. So when a woman just wants to make sure your whole family has a good day, and you as well, it's not easy to do when you live in a home where the man makes all the decisions. (Or even sometimes just one or two vital ones). A man may know what he wants to eat for dinner but woman are known for cravings. Perhaps if a man knew a woman's craving they themselves will enjoy the meal more so than what they were intending to eat for dinner. Only you may never even be able to know so because ya know, your stomach pines for food once so eating two dinners isn't a valid test. So if a man enjoys his dinner that his wife has made for him and then makes what he wanted the next night, most likely he will enjoy his dinner the next night more than he would have the day before. Same thing works with the nature of woman speaking. “hold on I'm getting to the point.” Well men, did you know that point is tailored to please you? Usually when a woman cuts a man off from talking it's because it's, “I know what you're getting at but please shut up because it's not at all what I want to hear, sorry. Why don't you go and just speak to yourself in another room because your conversation is really kinda just for you.” Men 'sometimes' like to please woman. The rest of the time they're trying to 'un-please' what they've already pleased because it's pleasing to them. Obviously it makes some people un-happy for others to be happy.