So why yes I see his mother's problem that I baby him too much supporting his lifestyle of doing nothing more than loving me all day long and desiring to hold me and filling my absent void with food as I reward him with warm kisses and nurturing love, I do so because this man has stuck with me until I found the avenue in life where I'm doing something I love. This is my plan for our future with him and others in his support structure are not as outlandish minded as me (a problem I've had my whole life) but I'm sure in my heart he'll adjust to the normal world in his own time so why would I push him? I want him working in his own time when something he loves comes along and he shows a passion for so.
Until then I am doing his laundry and he is not learning to cook because if he develops a passion to become domesticated I'm going to leave him. I'm sorry we have our roles and I want everything he is because I like his interest and non interest in regards of being a man. And for now when he asks me what I see in him and why I'm into him when he has no aspirations at the moment and not even an aspiration to have an aspiration it's because he is my dream and therefore the only reason why I chase my own dreams. That and I know he has a million dreams of his own and ya know what? I love them and I love him and he's my baby who I will love warmly with all my heart all day long and he can rest and be lazy knowing that.
I mean I do agree with his mother who thinks I can push him in the right direction and try so but I care more about his mental and emotional state of mind and one must understand how just stone cold he is and you can't tell him a thing unless he's being nestled with cuddled warmth.
So as the old saying goes, “Just blame his mother.”