I have completely trained myself to only check out other females, as for the comfort of other men. In doing so I can totally understand why men love us woman so much but why do woman love themselves so much? Considering woman's magazine's have mostly pictures of woman but then mans magazine's have mostly pictures of woman too!.. Could it be that men have trained woman not to look at other men for their own insecurities?
Though, when you're watching television with the opposite sex your peripheral vision catches where their eyes wonder. Perhaps it's trauma of watching adult rated movies in my adolescences with my father. You know the type of movies where you no longer are asked to leave the room for vulgar language and nudity. I always wondered about my mom though. Like, how would mom feel if she knew you were watching this dad? But then again, why was I watching the movie too? It's because men with drugs and guns were cool, duh. It was the storyline. - - well, for me.
Anyway, briefly, and briefly for this reason, dancing around relationships with men, since I've grown into a 'woman' I've realized the most stable staple I need in a relationship is a 'pleasing me' man to watch even non-cable prime-time shows with. I'm not even trying to venture out of channel 11 with a man if I can't laugh being myself at all the sex comments and remarks but in return not be offended if he laughs too. Or even more 'pleasing to me', if he gets annoyed and expresses distaste.
Obviously it's a comfort and personal insecurities/securities issues that makes any of this significant to anyone's feelings. And you know, if I'm just like my mother and catch my man watching late-night showtime because I'm denying sex for whatever my reason's are, I don't get mad at that man. Or even jealous on a unhealthy level. Or even annoyed. It's funny and somehow cute. But for any other man it's just offensive, wrong and cheating! And if I start putting out then those channels are again off limits! (because I'm his sex and eye candy again!)
Anyway. My point in this mumble is that I have trained myself, (or rather I've been trained) to sexually check out females instead of men. I don't want anything to do with a girl sexually. I don't desire to touch them, I don't want to please them. In the end, I don't think I even enjoy looking at them. They're all make-up and fake looking. I mean I love make-up - - on me. And as a girl I can appreciate other females liking make-up. Well, my overall point here to men is, if you find yourself with a woman who likes to please and care for you on all levels, especially your self esteem, by opting to check out woman over men to gather your overall view of them rather than checking out the hot man on screen you don't even notice (you know until he takes his shirt off) because you know your girl gratefully isn't looking at him. - - Reward that behavior with lots and lots of attention, love and touching... A.K.A. > affection. And my overall point to the ladies is if you're with a man who uses hot screen females to put you down to lower yourself self-esteem, they do this to keep you, so dump them because that means you're too good for them!
Though, when you're watching television with the opposite sex your peripheral vision catches where their eyes wonder. Perhaps it's trauma of watching adult rated movies in my adolescences with my father. You know the type of movies where you no longer are asked to leave the room for vulgar language and nudity. I always wondered about my mom though. Like, how would mom feel if she knew you were watching this dad? But then again, why was I watching the movie too? It's because men with drugs and guns were cool, duh. It was the storyline. - - well, for me.
Anyway, briefly, and briefly for this reason, dancing around relationships with men, since I've grown into a 'woman' I've realized the most stable staple I need in a relationship is a 'pleasing me' man to watch even non-cable prime-time shows with. I'm not even trying to venture out of channel 11 with a man if I can't laugh being myself at all the sex comments and remarks but in return not be offended if he laughs too. Or even more 'pleasing to me', if he gets annoyed and expresses distaste.
Obviously it's a comfort and personal insecurities/securities issues that makes any of this significant to anyone's feelings. And you know, if I'm just like my mother and catch my man watching late-night showtime because I'm denying sex for whatever my reason's are, I don't get mad at that man. Or even jealous on a unhealthy level. Or even annoyed. It's funny and somehow cute. But for any other man it's just offensive, wrong and cheating! And if I start putting out then those channels are again off limits! (because I'm his sex and eye candy again!)
Anyway. My point in this mumble is that I have trained myself, (or rather I've been trained) to sexually check out females instead of men. I don't want anything to do with a girl sexually. I don't desire to touch them, I don't want to please them. In the end, I don't think I even enjoy looking at them. They're all make-up and fake looking. I mean I love make-up - - on me. And as a girl I can appreciate other females liking make-up. Well, my overall point here to men is, if you find yourself with a woman who likes to please and care for you on all levels, especially your self esteem, by opting to check out woman over men to gather your overall view of them rather than checking out the hot man on screen you don't even notice (you know until he takes his shirt off) because you know your girl gratefully isn't looking at him. - - Reward that behavior with lots and lots of attention, love and touching... A.K.A. > affection. And my overall point to the ladies is if you're with a man who uses hot screen females to put you down to lower yourself self-esteem, they do this to keep you, so dump them because that means you're too good for them!