Much like Gabriella from The Eternity that Follows my own love life has gone along with the proverb she chose to live her life around; “Good things come to those that wait.” My man asset (as you may hear me sometimes call him because he doesn't like the term 'boy toy') and I have not been together for all that long. There is a connection of being together for am emotionally long time though and it can be felt between us within the way we interact with one another and how we feel in each others care and company.
With all that being said, he asked me last night; “What would I do if something happened to him.” - - and he did mean; what would you do if I died right now, or tomorrow, sometime soon. I had a cute, playful answer - - he didn't seem to feel the answer was deep enough. I thought I'd write up a blog post to share with my readers exactly what I would do.
Well, since I have had dreams of being settled down with the right man since 21 and I am now 27, and I am full heartily sure he's it; my real answer is; I'd probably just stay faithful. I'm not to sure I would be looking to move on, I mean - - I finally found him, right? Well, I do understand human nature and the pressure of someone losing a significant other do feel from family members when the time comes from them to forget their past love and move on and explore a relationship with someone new. Therefore, I'm sure I would try and get out there to date again if something did happen to him - - but honestly, I'm not sure if I would. If you have read any of my books you would understand that I believe once you find the one, that love is forever, for eternity in heaven, (and the eternity that follows after the end of 'eternity.' Plus, it takes a lot for me to be interested in a man, like a whole lot which is why this is the first relationship to last longer than three days in many, many, many years.
Any who, the only answer he was looking for from his question if he were to pass on was if I'd cry or not. I would. But like I tell him, I feel him all around me when he's not with me. I see him in my dreams and I have been keeping to dedications and career goals in life, even more strongly now since we have gotten together. Therefore, I'd do what the Mary Magdalene must of done when Jesus passed on. I would do my part to make the world a better place, in any way I could. I would work hard in life, feeling him watching over me, and then I'd spend forever with him in the eternity that follows our lives on earth.
Only thing is, he put me to sleep last night peacefully and happily, and then he kinda had to leave cause he spent the last two nights over and my parents thought, okay kiddo's that's enough. So, when I woke up I was really missing that morning kiss. Kinda felt like I wanted to die without him, got over it quickly though cause I knew I'd be seeing him later. Guess this means I would be a miserable mess without him.
Disclaimer; I am not running away over the hill into dream land here. His words were very sweet to me last night when this conversation arose and just like the hero's in my romance writing, he too would like to spend heaven with me. =) What a lucky gal I am!
With all that being said, he asked me last night; “What would I do if something happened to him.” - - and he did mean; what would you do if I died right now, or tomorrow, sometime soon. I had a cute, playful answer - - he didn't seem to feel the answer was deep enough. I thought I'd write up a blog post to share with my readers exactly what I would do.
Well, since I have had dreams of being settled down with the right man since 21 and I am now 27, and I am full heartily sure he's it; my real answer is; I'd probably just stay faithful. I'm not to sure I would be looking to move on, I mean - - I finally found him, right? Well, I do understand human nature and the pressure of someone losing a significant other do feel from family members when the time comes from them to forget their past love and move on and explore a relationship with someone new. Therefore, I'm sure I would try and get out there to date again if something did happen to him - - but honestly, I'm not sure if I would. If you have read any of my books you would understand that I believe once you find the one, that love is forever, for eternity in heaven, (and the eternity that follows after the end of 'eternity.' Plus, it takes a lot for me to be interested in a man, like a whole lot which is why this is the first relationship to last longer than three days in many, many, many years.
Any who, the only answer he was looking for from his question if he were to pass on was if I'd cry or not. I would. But like I tell him, I feel him all around me when he's not with me. I see him in my dreams and I have been keeping to dedications and career goals in life, even more strongly now since we have gotten together. Therefore, I'd do what the Mary Magdalene must of done when Jesus passed on. I would do my part to make the world a better place, in any way I could. I would work hard in life, feeling him watching over me, and then I'd spend forever with him in the eternity that follows our lives on earth.
Only thing is, he put me to sleep last night peacefully and happily, and then he kinda had to leave cause he spent the last two nights over and my parents thought, okay kiddo's that's enough. So, when I woke up I was really missing that morning kiss. Kinda felt like I wanted to die without him, got over it quickly though cause I knew I'd be seeing him later. Guess this means I would be a miserable mess without him.
Disclaimer; I am not running away over the hill into dream land here. His words were very sweet to me last night when this conversation arose and just like the hero's in my romance writing, he too would like to spend heaven with me. =) What a lucky gal I am!