I turned my last boyfriend onto puckering out his lips in a cute and sexy manner for a kiss. I did not mind however giving him up and letting him use such move on another female. In all honesty, I'd like to see him happy and with someone and be there to see that kiss. Though he mimicked me, I had mimicked someone else, and he where I had actually gained the move from. It's actually really simple and I'd be happy to teach but be alarmed it's very tempting and chances are I don't want you kissing my lips.
I bring this up as an example of the same man who taught me how to move my lips in such a way, is also the man I taught to hold a woman. Though I'm sure he won't admit he was pleased for his end of the night's deal, i.e. I earned to be held - - he lightly says to me “what do I do?” (Charming. It was very charming!) The answer was simple, nothing. I cuddled right up to his chest and though I don't remember if he actually wrapped his arms around me or not in that moment, I can for sure say; him I never want holding another woman as long as he lives. Seven years later and he turned out to be a romantic holder and a lazy cuddlier. Two things I as a woman must have in a relationship.
Well, I hung out with some guy pals last night and there remarks on strip clubs and a mild conversation on how I'm clingy I am has made me realize that perhaps I'm not hopeless and I'm right, there is a correct fit out there for everyone. I do however notice a trend that I'm not liking too, too much. There are too many single men on my Facebook. I'm not sure what it is but I do know there were many studies on it years ago in regards to a man's desire to settle down. I have figured it out though. (and this is mostly directed toward men but not to single out perhaps some females out there) You must have already let your soul mate go and they are either, a. taken now or b. no where to be found.
If you find this is your personal case I'll give a few tips for when this person comes around.
Save yourself sexually (yes this includes strip clubs and dirty movies!)
If you see things when your out and about shopping that remind you of this person pick it up. (No. Do not furnish a house with out her and buy her a new wardrobe. That's creepy!)
Make known that there is no need for jealousy if she is indeed settled down with someone when you find her. (Do not stalk! Do open your heart and ask around)
If she is with someone you must sweep her off your feet! Watch romantic comedies but read, read the real love stories. There's a major difference here. i.e. you got mail vs. Nicholas Sparks. (Literally.. swoop her off her feet.. pick her up!)
Flowers, cards, roses. Yes there is a difference between a flower and a rose! A single rose would be perfect for that first conversation. (think of it this way - - if you're convinced this person is your soul mate and your right fit than they will be delighted to see you and a smile will most likely occur!)
OKAY!!!! Here is the MAJOR step. A RING! (Yes I'm crazy but hear me out) If this person has settled down and you have lost them due to your inability to wanting to have settled down at the right time – they want a commitment, a life partner! Don't wait a single second more than what feels like the right moment for the ring!!
OooOo and expect and playfully demand sex! This person absolutely must cheat not leave the person rightfully so if they want to spend their life with you.. (yes you need an ego too!) and sex is the chemistry that in bodies a relationship soO.. well there's a right time for everything and sex is right so it's always the right time!
I bring this up as an example of the same man who taught me how to move my lips in such a way, is also the man I taught to hold a woman. Though I'm sure he won't admit he was pleased for his end of the night's deal, i.e. I earned to be held - - he lightly says to me “what do I do?” (Charming. It was very charming!) The answer was simple, nothing. I cuddled right up to his chest and though I don't remember if he actually wrapped his arms around me or not in that moment, I can for sure say; him I never want holding another woman as long as he lives. Seven years later and he turned out to be a romantic holder and a lazy cuddlier. Two things I as a woman must have in a relationship.
Well, I hung out with some guy pals last night and there remarks on strip clubs and a mild conversation on how I'm clingy I am has made me realize that perhaps I'm not hopeless and I'm right, there is a correct fit out there for everyone. I do however notice a trend that I'm not liking too, too much. There are too many single men on my Facebook. I'm not sure what it is but I do know there were many studies on it years ago in regards to a man's desire to settle down. I have figured it out though. (and this is mostly directed toward men but not to single out perhaps some females out there) You must have already let your soul mate go and they are either, a. taken now or b. no where to be found.
If you find this is your personal case I'll give a few tips for when this person comes around.
Save yourself sexually (yes this includes strip clubs and dirty movies!)
If you see things when your out and about shopping that remind you of this person pick it up. (No. Do not furnish a house with out her and buy her a new wardrobe. That's creepy!)
Make known that there is no need for jealousy if she is indeed settled down with someone when you find her. (Do not stalk! Do open your heart and ask around)
If she is with someone you must sweep her off your feet! Watch romantic comedies but read, read the real love stories. There's a major difference here. i.e. you got mail vs. Nicholas Sparks. (Literally.. swoop her off her feet.. pick her up!)
Flowers, cards, roses. Yes there is a difference between a flower and a rose! A single rose would be perfect for that first conversation. (think of it this way - - if you're convinced this person is your soul mate and your right fit than they will be delighted to see you and a smile will most likely occur!)
OKAY!!!! Here is the MAJOR step. A RING! (Yes I'm crazy but hear me out) If this person has settled down and you have lost them due to your inability to wanting to have settled down at the right time – they want a commitment, a life partner! Don't wait a single second more than what feels like the right moment for the ring!!
OooOo and expect and playfully demand sex! This person absolutely must cheat not leave the person rightfully so if they want to spend their life with you.. (yes you need an ego too!) and sex is the chemistry that in bodies a relationship soO.. well there's a right time for everything and sex is right so it's always the right time!